You’re here because you’re The Over-Giver, and you’re not alone.

If you've ever felt like love had to be earned, rest had to be justified, or worth had to be proven, this is your mirror moment.

You’ve just found the place that gets it.

This space was created by women who’ve lived your story (and rewrote it with boundaries, not burnout).

You don’t need permission to stop overextending.

Always There For
Everyone Else...
Never Sure Who’s
There For You.

You’ve built a life around being
indispensable, but now, you’re
ready to feel chosen, not just
needed. No more shrinking
to keep the peace.

Begin My Reset

You’re not weak for feeling tired.
You’re just not meant to carry everyone.

If you've normalized the grind, these numbers will feel hauntingly familiar:

78% of women say they put others’ needs before their own, daily.

(Mental Health Foundation)

63% report feeling invisible or emotionally depleted in relationships.

(Journal of Women’s Health)

69% of burnout cases in women trace back to emotional over-functioning.

(World Health Org)

You weren’t born to be the backup plan.
You were born to feel chosen, not just useful.

You’re not too sensitive.
You’re just tired of wearing the armor.

Now picture the shift...

You say “no” and feel proud, not guilty.

You ask for help and receive it without explaining yourself.

You rest, unplug, walk away and the world doesn’t fall apart. It recalibrates.

Feel the room grow bigger around you.

Because you were never meant to disappear inside other people’s needs.

You were meant to rest, receive, and be loved, without earning it.

Insight: Giving isn’t the problem. Giving
without return, repair, or reciprocity is.

Maybe you’ve tried setting boundaries, speaking up,
pulling back, but it always leads to guilt, conflict, or
someone making you feel like you’re selfish.

That’s not failure, it’s conditioning. And coaching helps you
unlearn it safely, without needing to become someone else.

You can avoid the cost of yet another relationship that
drains you by learning to love without losing yourself.

Show Me The Way To Solve This

MEET OUR FOUNDER WHO'S
HELPED WOMEN LIKE YOU RISE

For 20 years she’s guided celebrities, CEOs, and
quiet high-achievers to having unshakeable self-worth.

RAJ GIRN

Founder, Co-Owner, Chairwoman, Chief Executive
Officer, Chief Marketing & Revenue Officer

25-Year Multimedia Veteran & Event Specialist

Motivational Speaker, TV & Radio Host, Event Producer
—
22-Year Multi-Award-Winning Serial Entrepreneur
Co-Founded: Home of Dentistry (1997); Founded: The ANOKHI Media Group Of Brands (2002); Founded: THE OPEN CHEST CONFIDENCE ACADEMY (2020); Co-Founded: THE GLAM TEMPLE MEDSPA (2023); Co-Founded: Cabo Luxury Penthouse Rentals (2024)
—
Niche Branding & Marketing Expert
Largest Single Campaign Yield To Date – 3.4 Billion Media Impressions Worldwide
—
Double Certified (Confidence) Coach
FCI Certified Coach [Flow Coaching Institute] (2020-);
ICF Certified Coach [International Coach Federation] (2021-)
—
Business Consultant
CMC-Canada Consultant [Canadian Association of Management Consultants] (2021)
—
Usui Reiki Master Practitioner
Clearing, Healing and Building Focus

What People Are Saying:

ADA
MLOSTEK

Founder, BG Media
Inc. / TV Producer
& Host

With a natural capacity to see a person’s raw talent, Raj has helped countless businesswomen (me included), to follow their passion and hone their skills, to build a business doing something they love.

DR. MONICA
VERMANI

Clinical Psychologist,
Author, & Mental
Health Advocate

Having Raj as my coach, my vision of becoming an expert speaker, advocate, and author in the field of mental health has shifted from an idea in the head to the reality of a book, an online learning platform, and my own corporate wellness company.

JOAN KELLEY
WALKER

TV Personality /
Entrepreneur /
Philanthropist

Raj has the capacity to make you feel like you are in a safe space to open-up, share and be your authentic self. She is genuinely interested. She is dynamic, supportive, interactive and exudes grace.

MAHIMA
KLINGE

Europe's #1 Self
Mastery Mentor,
The Mahima Mindset

Raj Girn Is a powerhouse bursting with love and care. She brings her full heart to meet you where you are. I can highly recommend being close to her and learning from her. It will enrich your life and move you from where you are to start thriving and growing.

MIA
MARTINA

Multi-Platinum
Singer-Songwriter

Raj is definitely my secret weapon. Her energy and her approach on coaching/mentoring is so unique and it gets the results! Raj makes you dig deep and brings out the absolute best in you while keeping it real with that magic touch she has that is so magnetic on creating your brand.

PAM
SETIA

Founder & Managing
Director, What
The Financial

There are not enough words to express the gratitude I have for Raj. She has cleared my life of confusion and helped me uncover my purpose. Her wisdom, insight and art of aiding self-discovery and growth, are unmatched!

Why Our Coaching Works:

We don’t just teach boundaries.
We build emotional blueprints.

Our framework meets your intelligence with
clarity and has helped women like you achieve:

1. Rest & Recovery

2. Emotional Support

3. Practical Help

4. Time For Themselves

5. Validation & Appreciation

This isn’t just about what you need from others.

It's also about what you need from yourself.

Each path is grounded in structure, paced for sustainability, and anchored in identity-first transformation.

The only question is...
which version of you
are you ready to meet?

Choose the Level of Support That
Matches Your Season of Growth

	Groundwork Seeker	Momentum Builder ★ Most Chosen	Resilience Activator	Self-Leadership ★ Deepest Transformation
Best For	Stop Spiraling & Stabilize in 90 Days	Consistency That Compounds Into Unshakable Confidence	Own Every Room You Enter With Fearless Ease	Live the Legacy of Self-Actualization Every Day
Transformation Focus	Build emotional safety Daily self-trust habits 30–50% drop in self-doubt (after session 1)	End sabotage cycles Lock in confidence skills 2× confidence boost (by session 3)	Handle challenge with clarity 60% rise in decision confidence	Unshakeable self-worth Full-spectrum accountability Year-round self-actualization
What’s Included	6 × 45-min sessions + growth work 3-month fixed schedule 1 check-in with concierge Access to solution desk Groundwork Playbook PDF VIP newsletter access $50 Confidence Cash	12 × 45-min sessions + growth work 6-month fixed schedule 2 concierge check-ins Access to solution desk Momentum Playbook PDF Featured in magazine VIP newsletter access $100 Confidence Cash	12 × 60-min sessions + growth work Use anytime in 6 months 2 concierge check-ins Access to solution desk Resilience Playbook PDF Featured in magazine VIP newsletter access $125 Confidence Cash	24 × 60-min sessions + growth work Use anytime in 12 months 3–4 concierge check-ins Access to solution desk Self-Leadership Playbook PDF Featured on podcast VIP newsletter access $350 Confidence Cash
Investment	$1,950 or $675 × 3	$3,600 or $600 × 6	$5,400 or $900 × 6	$10,200 or $850 × 12
Action	Lay My Foundation →	Build My Momentum →	Face All Of My Challenges →	Lead With Self-Empowerment →

We work with only 15 women per quarter
not to limit, but to honour.

Your healing deserves more than generic advice.
It deserves intimacy, depth, and
protection from the noise.

This coaching isn't designed for the masses.
It’s designed for the woman who’s finally
ready to receive as much as she gives.

STILL FEELING UNSURE?

Here are some of our most Frequently Asked Questions to help you clarify some things that may be holding you back:

I am just so busy working IN my business, that I don’t have time to work ON my business...

I just can’t afford it right now.

I have a small team that can’t take on any more work.

What if I feel guilty spending time or money on myself?

What if I’ve tried setting boundaries before and it backfired?

What if people don’t like the “new me”?

I’m afraid I’ll revert back. What if I can’t maintain it?

Is there a refund policy?

I'm Ready To Begin My Reset

You’ve spent years believing
love means self-sacrifice.

But that version of love
always left you out.

You’re not here to prove your worth.
You’re here to remember it.

Picture yourself next month: you say “no” with grace, rest without guilt, and finally feel valued, even in stillness.

Future you already said yes.
What are you waiting for?

With Compassion,
Raj Girn

Founder, The Open Chest Confidence Academy

You’ve done the giving.
Now let yourself receive.

Choose My Path

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You’re here because you’re The Over-Giver, and you’re not alone.

If you've ever felt like love had to be earned, rest had to be justified, or worth had to be proven, this is your mirror moment.

You’ve just found the place that gets it.

This space was created by women who’ve lived your story (and rewrote it with boundaries, not burnout).

You don’t need permission to stop overextending.

Always There ForEveryone Else...Never Sure Who’sThere For You.

You’ve built a life around beingindispensable, but now, you’reready to feel chosen, not justneeded. No more shrinkingto keep the peace.

You’re not weak for feeling tired.You’re just not meant to carry everyone.

If you've normalized the grind, these numbers will feel hauntingly familiar:

78% of women say they put others’ needs before their own, daily.(Mental Health Foundation)

63% report feeling invisible or emotionally depleted in relationships.(Journal of Women’s Health)

69% of burnout cases in women trace back to emotional over-functioning.(World Health Org)

You weren’t born to be the backup plan.You were born to feel chosen, not just useful.

You’re not too sensitive.You’re just tired of wearing the armor.

Now picture the shift...

Insight: Giving isn’t the problem. Givingwithout return, repair, or reciprocity is.

Maybe you’ve tried setting boundaries, speaking up,pulling back, but it always leads to guilt, conflict, orsomeone making you feel like you’re selfish.That’s not failure, it’s conditioning. And coaching helps youunlearn it safely, without needing to become someone else.

You can avoid the cost of yet another relationship thatdrains you by learning to love without losing yourself.

MEET OUR FOUNDER WHO'SHELPED WOMEN LIKE YOU RISE

For 20 years she’s guided celebrities, CEOs, andquiet high-achievers to having unshakeable self-worth.

RAJ GIRN

Founder, Co-Owner, Chairwoman, Chief ExecutiveOfficer, Chief Marketing & Revenue Officer

25-Year Multimedia Veteran & Event Specialist

What People Are Saying:

ADAMLOSTEK

Founder, BG MediaInc. / TV Producer& Host

With a natural capacity to see a person’s raw talent, Raj has helped countless businesswomen (me included), to follow their passion and hone their skills, to build a business doing something they love.

DR. MONICAVERMANI

Clinical Psychologist,Author, & MentalHealth Advocate

Having Raj as my coach, my vision of becoming an expert speaker, advocate, and author in the field of mental health has shifted from an idea in the head to the reality of a book, an online learning platform, and my own corporate wellness company.

JOAN KELLEYWALKER

TV Personality /Entrepreneur /Philanthropist

Raj has the capacity to make you feel like you are in a safe space to open-up, share and be your authentic self. She is genuinely interested. She is dynamic, supportive, interactive and exudes grace.

MAHIMAKLINGE

Europe's #1 SelfMastery Mentor,The Mahima Mindset

Raj Girn Is a powerhouse bursting with love and care. She brings her full heart to meet you where you are. I can highly recommend being close to her and learning from her. It will enrich your life and move you from where you are to start thriving and growing.

MIAMARTINA

Multi-PlatinumSinger-Songwriter

Raj is definitely my secret weapon. Her energy and her approach on coaching/mentoring is so unique and it gets the results! Raj makes you dig deep and brings out the absolute best in you while keeping it real with that magic touch she has that is so magnetic on creating your brand.

PAMSETIA

Founder & ManagingDirector, WhatThe Financial

There are not enough words to express the gratitude I have for Raj. She has cleared my life of confusion and helped me uncover my purpose. Her wisdom, insight and art of aiding self-discovery and growth, are unmatched!

Why Our Coaching Works:

We don’t just teach boundaries.We build emotional blueprints.

Our framework meets your intelligence withclarity and has helped women like you achieve:

1. Rest & Recovery

Why it's needed:Chronic stress and lack of sleep can lead to physical and emotional breakdown.

What it looks like:Sleep, naps, quiet time, time off work, or even short retreats to reset.

2. Emotional Support

Why it's needed:Overworked women often feel isolated, unappreciated, or invisible.

What it looks like:Someone to listen without judgment, therapy, women's groups, or talking with close friends or a partner.

3. Practical Help

Why it's needed:Many women take on an unequal share of domestic, emotional, or mental labor.

What it looks like:Help with childcare, meal prep, housework, or delegating tasks at work or home.

4. Time For Themselves

Why it's needed:Without personal time, burnout builds and identity outside of work or caregiving fades.

What it looks like:Hobbies, walks, creative projects, exercise, or simply time alone without demands.

5. Validation & Appreciation

Why it's needed:Feeling undervalued or overlooked can lead to resentment and low self-worth.

What it looks like:Acknowledgment from family, co-workers, or partners; being seen and thanked for their contributions.

This isn’t just about what you need from others.It's also about what you need from yourself.

Each path is grounded in structure, paced for sustainability, and anchored in identity-first transformation.The only question is...which version of youare you ready to meet?

Choose the Level of Support ThatMatches Your Season of Growth

We work with only 15 women per quarternot to limit, but to honour.Your healing deserves more than generic advice.It deserves intimacy, depth, andprotection from the noise.This coaching isn't designed for the masses.It’s designed for the woman who’s finallyready to receive as much as she gives.

STILL FEELING UNSURE?

Here are some of our most Frequently Asked Questions to help you clarify some things that may be holding you back:

I am just so busy working IN my business, that I don’t have time to work ON my business...

Exactly. You are stuck on the proverbial entrepreneurial rollercoaster, and that’s the problem…

If you don’t carve out time NOW to work on your business, you will stay on the rollercoaster FOREVER.

If you think that dedicating 4 hours a week (less than an hour a day) to working on your business is worth breaking out of that infinite loop, our support and expert mentorship can unbuckle you from and keep you off of that nauseating cycle of high highs and low lows (for good).

I just can’t afford it right now.

Ask yourself this... "How costly will it be if I continue to do nothing?"

If you don’t get the support now that you need in your business, how will it affect your cash flow, employees, and relationships?

Time stops for nobody. Taking the opportunities that provide you with the solutions to your problems and give you the results you've been looking for is what will validate the work you've put in to come as far as you have, already.

But what's the cost of continual inaction? Carving out that clear path to, and having any chance to even reach your zenith.

The time to step up and make the investment in yourself is now.

I have a small team that can’t take on any more work.

We can do this work directly with you, only pulling in your team when explicitly needed.

All we need is a willing CEO to make big, sustainable changes in your business.

What if I feel guilty spending time or money on myself?

Always There For
Everyone Else...
Never Sure Who’s
There For You.

You’ve built a life around being
indispensable, but now, you’re
ready to feel chosen, not just
needed. No more shrinking
to keep the peace.

You’re not weak for feeling tired.
You’re just not meant to carry everyone.

78% of women say they put others’ needs before their own, daily.

(Mental Health Foundation)

63% report feeling invisible or emotionally depleted in relationships.

(Journal of Women’s Health)

69% of burnout cases in women trace back to emotional over-functioning.

(World Health Org)

You weren’t born to be the backup plan.
You were born to feel chosen, not just useful.

You’re not too sensitive.
You’re just tired of wearing the armor.

Insight: Giving isn’t the problem. Giving
without return, repair, or reciprocity is.

Maybe you’ve tried setting boundaries, speaking up,
pulling back, but it always leads to guilt, conflict, or
someone making you feel like you’re selfish.

That’s not failure, it’s conditioning. And coaching helps you
unlearn it safely, without needing to become someone else.

You can avoid the cost of yet another relationship that
drains you by learning to love without losing yourself.

MEET OUR FOUNDER WHO'S
HELPED WOMEN LIKE YOU RISE

For 20 years she’s guided celebrities, CEOs, and
quiet high-achievers to having unshakeable self-worth.

Founder, Co-Owner, Chairwoman, Chief Executive
Officer, Chief Marketing & Revenue Officer

ADA
MLOSTEK

Founder, BG Media
Inc. / TV Producer
& Host

DR. MONICA
VERMANI

Clinical Psychologist,
Author, & Mental
Health Advocate

JOAN KELLEY
WALKER

TV Personality /
Entrepreneur /
Philanthropist

MAHIMA
KLINGE

Europe's #1 Self
Mastery Mentor,
The Mahima Mindset

MIA
MARTINA

Multi-Platinum
Singer-Songwriter

PAM
SETIA

Founder & Managing
Director, What
The Financial

We don’t just teach boundaries.
We build emotional blueprints.

Our framework meets your intelligence with
clarity and has helped women like you achieve:

Why it's needed:
Chronic stress and lack of sleep can lead to physical and emotional breakdown.

What it looks like:
Sleep, naps, quiet time, time off work, or even short retreats to reset.

Why it's needed:
Overworked women often feel isolated, unappreciated, or invisible.

What it looks like:
Someone to listen without judgment, therapy, women's groups, or talking with close friends or a partner.

Why it's needed:
Many women take on an unequal share of domestic, emotional, or mental labor.

What it looks like:
Help with childcare, meal prep, housework, or delegating tasks at work or home.

Why it's needed:
Without personal time, burnout builds and identity outside of work or caregiving fades.

What it looks like:
Hobbies, walks, creative projects, exercise, or simply time alone without demands.

Why it's needed:
Feeling undervalued or overlooked can lead to resentment and low self-worth.

What it looks like:
Acknowledgment from family, co-workers, or partners; being seen and thanked for their contributions.

This isn’t just about what you need from others.

It's also about what you need from yourself.

Each path is grounded in structure, paced for sustainability, and anchored in identity-first transformation.

The only question is...
which version of you
are you ready to meet?

Choose the Level of Support That
Matches Your Season of Growth

With Compassion,
Raj Girn

You’ve done the giving.
Now let yourself receive.