You’re not needy. You’re emotionally generous in a world that rarely reciprocates.
If this resonates with you, these numbers will feel hauntingly familiar:
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74% of women say they feel emotionally unfulfilled in their romantic relationships.
(American Psychological Association)
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68% report downplaying their needs to avoid being "too much."
(Harvard Women's Study)
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59% admit they stay in relationships longer than they should, hoping love will finally "feel right."
(Modern Love Research, 2022)
You were never too much.
You were too often in spaces that gave you too little.
You speak your truth, and they lean in, not away.
You feel chosen, adored, and emotionally safe.
No more guessing games.
You speak your needs, and they’re met with care, not silence.
You’re held, not just looked at.
You’re understood, not just heard.
You walk into a room and stop scanning for cues. You belong.
Feel the tightness lift off your chest.
Because you weren’t born to earn love.
You were born to receive it.
Insight: It’s not about picking better people, it’s about learning to pick yourself first.
You’ve done the mindset work. You know the pattern. But real change happens when you're seen, supported, and held to your future standard (not your old survival mode).
And patterns can be re-written.
Love that meets you back doesn’t require a chase,
but it does require a choice.
Stand clear of another heartbreak by reclaiming the version of you who doesn’t chase, settle, or self-abandon.
RAJ GIRN
Founder, Co-Owner, Chairwoman, Chief Executive
Officer, Chief Marketing & Revenue Officer
25-Year Multimedia Veteran & Event Specialist
Motivational Speaker, TV & Radio Host, Event Producer
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22-Year Multi-Award-Winning Serial Entrepreneur
Co-Founded: Home of Dentistry (1997); Founded: The ANOKHI Media Group Of Brands (2002); Founded: THE OPEN CHEST CONFIDENCE ACADEMY (2020); Co-Founded: THE GLAM TEMPLE MEDSPA (2023); Co-Founded: Cabo Luxury Penthouse Rentals (2024)
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Niche Branding & Marketing Expert
Largest Single Campaign Yield To Date – 3.4 Billion Media Impressions Worldwide
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Double Certified (Confidence) Coach
FCI Certified Coach [Flow Coaching Institute] (2020-);
ICF Certified Coach [International Coach Federation] (2021-)
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Business Consultant
CMC-Canada Consultant [Canadian Association of Management Consultants] (2021)
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Usui Reiki Master Practitioner
Clearing, Healing and Building Focus
We don’t just help you date better.
We help you love from a place of wholeness.
Our 4-part framework meets your intelligence with clarity — and your nervous system with compassion:
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Break the Prove-Please-Perform Cycle
No more shrinking or shape-shifting. -
Rebuild Worthiness from Within
So love doesn’t feel like something to earn. -
Repattern Nervous System Safety
So stability doesn’t feel boring, and red flags no longer feel like home.
Rewire -
Relational Standards
Create dynamics based on mutuality, not martyrdom.
Proof of Pattern:
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Each path is grounded in structure, paced for sustainability, and anchored in identity-first transformation. Which version of you are you finally ready to stop hiding from?
We work with only 15 women per quarter not to exclude, but to honour the emotional intimacy this work requires.
If you’re ready to stop bending to feel loved and start building love that meets you back, this is where it begins.
You’ve made space for everyone else.
This space is for you now.
Here are some of our most Frequently Asked Questions to help you clarify some things that may be holding you back:
I am just so busy working IN my business, that I don’t have time to work ON my business...
I just can’t afford it right now.
I have a small team that can’t take on any more work.
You’ve spent years trying to be "enough" for someone else’s love.
But the truth is, you were already enough, just too used to shrinking for people who couldn’t see it.
Now, it's your turn to be chosen. Fully. Deeply.
By someone who knows your worth.
Let that someone be you.
Picture yourself next month, not overthinking the last text, not shrinking to fit. Just at peace. Just chosen.
– Raj
You’ve tried proving.
You’ve tried pleasing.
You’ve tried waiting.
What if you stop waiting for someone else’s signal, and start responding to your own?
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